I was just having one of those days, the other day, and decided to have a little vent session. I am normally cheerful and optimistic, but things just felt overwhelming. I typed up the blog, read it once and posted it. Then within a minute I received my first comment. I read it and was really shocked so I immediately deleted it, thinking it was someone just playing a mean joke. Then very very soon after that I received a second comment. I called my best friend to see if she had any idea who it was. She told me to leave the comments on there. She said my friends would defend me.
That's what I did. Surprisingly, after the day I had I wasn't at all upset or really offended by was "Meg" was saying. I feel that she obviously doesn't know me very well if she thinks those things of me. I do think, however, that she is someone I know. I did some investigating, so to speak. She referred to Mark as Mark, rather than my husband, as someone who doesn't know me would refer to him as. She was a little too passionate to be a stranger. She is obviously single(bitter), and childless. Oh yeah, she also doesn't proofread or she can't spell. I was able to interpret her comments just fine though. Her name may or may not be "Meg". I will have to look into that further. This whole enemy thing is really quite fascinating. I feel like Spiderman!!
Even when this chick kept going on and on about me, I didn't feel upset. I was actually laughing at the things she was coming up with. My husband didn't feel the same. He is ready to fight for me right now, haha.
It was so nice to see how many of my friends understood me and my frustrations. It was also nice to see them defend me against her. I am glad to know that those who know me know that I am not normally like that all the time. Thank you to: Val(my bff), Melissa H., Chrystal, Melissa O., Josalyn, Anonymous, The Real Meg, Leah, and Crishelle. And thank you Meg for your words, kind or otherwise. I was getting a little bummed about not getting as many comments as I used to, but "Meg", you took care of that for me. I got a record number of comments on that blog post. It gave me such warm fuzzies!!!
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